Monday, August 25, 2008

ENTRY # FIFTEEN HUNDRED & SEVEN_ A

This is not my regular entry, Just an extra one that I needed to use but because of the length needed to use another page. Enjoy this and think about it today,

This is very good, a litttle long but worth the time it takes to read it, DAD

 

What would you do?....you make the choice. Don't look for a punch line, there isn't one. Read it anyway. My question is: Would you have made the same choice?

At a fund-raising dinner for a school that serves learning-disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: "When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot
understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?"

The audience was stilled by the query.

The father continued. "I believe that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child."


Then he told the following story:

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys
Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, "Do you think they'll let me play?" Shay's father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay's father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, "We're losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning."

Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father's joy at his son being
accepted. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.


At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn't
even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.


However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay
would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman's head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, "Shay, run to first! Run to first!" Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, "Run to second, run to second!" Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball . the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and
far over the third-baseman's head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, "Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay"

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, "Run to third! Shay, run to third!"


As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, "Shay, run home! Run home!" Shay ran to home, stepped on the
plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grand slam and won the game for his team.

"That day", said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, "the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world".

Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

AND NOW A LITTLE F OOTNOTE TO THIS STORY: We all send thousands of jokes through the e-mail without a second thought, but when it comes to sending messages about life choices, people hesitate. The crude, vulgar, and often obscene pass freely through cyberspace, but public discussion about decency is too often suppressed in our schools and workplaces.


If you're thinking about forwarding this message, chances are that you're probably sorting out the people in your address book who aren't the "appropriate" ones to receive this type of message. Well, the person who sent you this believes that we all can make a difference. We all have thousands of opportunities every single day to help realize the "natural order of things." So many seemingly trivial interactions between two people present us with a choice: Do we pass along a little spark of love and humanity or do we pass up those opportunities and leave the world a little bit colder in the process?
< BR>A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats it's least fortunate amongst them.

You now have two choices:
1. Delete
2.
Forward

May your day, be a Shay Day


Sent to me by one of my good friends, I do not who the writer is. Dad

Saturday, August 23, 2008

ENTRY # FIFTEEN HUNDRED & SIX

Good Morning.            
       


Picture by Gary &  Elaine.

Time is so precious-do not waste it.                © 2008 by Ray F White.

"The sun never sets on Dad's Tomato Garden Journal."     

To all of  my friends all around the world -have a nice day.

Together  We Can make some one Smile. Our smiles have made it around the world, I knew that we could do it, DAD.


 

Something New!
Click below

DAD'S OWN OUTDOOR WEB CAM


 

 

Picture by Dad.           

 A cup of  good Tea or Coffee, will help youget started  this Saturday morning, they are both ready and waiting on you. So now I am sitting here by myself waiting to see you come through that door.  Many of us do not have to work today, so mabe we can get a little rest today. I think that we  all need it.

    • Look Rock  In the west.

    •    The two cams in the Smokies, one in the eastern part and the other one in the  west.

    • Purchase  Knob   Inthe east.

    • WEATHER     This is AOL weather.

    • WEATHER . COM     This  link is very good also.

    • ( I  seem to use this every day, but I personally like and use it every day.)

    • Posted on 23 August 2008 by tomatocasual.com

    • By Kira Hamman

      A while back I misunderstood a question from a reader and thought he was wondering if the praying mantises on his tomatoes were going to hurt them.

      Turns out he actually had aphids (poor guy), but this got me to thinking about beneficial insects and the important role they play in the tomato garden.

      The praying mantis, for example, is indeed a beneficial insect. Far from hurting tomatoes, praying mantises love to feast on aphids and other bad bugs. They’re a little weird looking, it’s true, but they’re kind of fun to watch once you get used to them.

      They catch bugs with their front legs, the prayerful position of which is how they got their name. Some species grow Read the rest of this entry »


    • Video by Kelly.    This is good, Thanks Kelly,  Dad.

      Posted on 07 September 2007 by tomatocasual.com
      Tomato Crop Rotation: Can You Replant Tomatoes in the Same Bed?

      Soil Sampler: Feed Your Tomatoes Well - TomatoCasual.comBy Amelia Tucker

      While you are putting away seeds from this year’s garden, be sure to write down a basic map of the plants locations so you do not replant anything from that family in the same area the following year.

      This is referred to as crop rotation and it does apply to your small backyard garden just as much as the large fields of veggies grown by a big producer.

      The basic idea is that you do not plant the same family of plants two years in a row.

      Ideally, you should try to go three years between repeat plantings. For tomato gardeners, do not replant your seeds in this year’s plot.

      Also, do not plant potatoes or eggplants in the place where your tomatoes were. These plants, are all in the nightshade family. They use the same nutrients from the soil and also attract many of the same insects. Plants from the same family can pass disease between each other as well.

      The first line of defense is to rotate your crops. An example of this would be to plant sections like tomato, pepper and lettuce the first year. The second year try pepper, lettuce and tomato. The third year try lettuce, tomato and pepper. Then you can go back to the original order of plants.

      This is a simple way to keep your plants as healthy as possible and to enjoy those perfect tomatoes for many years to come.

      The picture at the top was sent to me by my friends Gary and Elaine. We have been friends for a long time, and I am glad to be able to have them as friends.Dad...

    • This link below shows you more of the tomatoes.that they produce.

    • These are waiting for tomorrow,I will make tomato jam with them. Elaine.

    • Jim is home . I am sure that we will be hearing from  him today, if he don't have a fishing trip on his mind. DAD...

    •  Thanks so much to all of you. If you would like to send me an email or comment in your own languageI would appreciate it very much.    DAD

    •   BE SURE AND LOOK AT THIS TODAY FIND THINGS THAT ARE HARD TO FIND...AND THEY CAN SHIP ALL AROUND THE WORLD.

    • Thought you might like to see this. 5 years with AOL I still call them Journals.  DAD
      http://journals.aol.co.uk/pharmolo/anniversary5blog/?page=2

      If you  view this Albums below  please use the slideshow  

    • Friday, August 22, 2008

      ENTRY # FIFTEEN HUNDRED & FIVE.

      Good Morning

       

      P1020428 by saraclar_84.

      Picture by Sara.

      This is Teo above. He is so beautiful. He belongs to our friend Sara who lives in Italy. I wish that he belonged to Dad, but I don't think that there would ever be a chance for that to happen. Click on the link below for other views of Teo.    DAD

      http://www.flickr.com/photos/saraclar_84/sets/72157606856505188/

      When you are finisher here looking at Teo your back button will let you continue with the journal'

       

      Picture by Dad.           

       A cup of  good Tea or Coffee, will help you get started  this Friday morning, they are both ready and waiting on you. So now I am sitting here by myself waiting to see you come through that door. I could use a little cheering up myself this morning. Some times old Dad gets down and need a little help  Come on Smile.

      This link Magic Smoke is very interesting today  Dad.

      Time is so precious-do not waste it.                © 2008 by Ray F White.

      "The sun never sets on Dad's Tomato Garden Journal."     

      To all of  my friends all around the world -have a nice day.

      Together  We Can make some one Smile. Our smiles have made it around the world, I knew that we could do it, DAD.

      Jim is home . I am sure that we will be hearing from  him today, if he don't have a fishing trip on his mind. DAD...

    •  Thanks so much to all of you. If you would like to send me an email or comment in your own language I would appreciate it very much.    DAD

      • Look Rock  In the west.

      •    The two cams in the Smokies, one in the eastern part and the other one in the  west.

      • Purchase  Knob   In the east.

      • WEATHER     This is AOL weather.

      • WEATHER . COM     This  link is very good also.

      • ( I  seem to use this every day, but I personally like and use it every day.)

      • Posted on 26 October 2007 by tomatocasual
        Raw Tomatoes Linked to Salmonella

        Raw Tomatoes Linked to Salmonella

        By Michelle Fabio

        Recent reports by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) and the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) have warned that some outbreaks of salmonella infections over the past fifteen years have been linked to raw tomatoes.

        While the overall odds are low that you would contract salmonella infections from raw tomatoes, the CDC estimates that there may have been up to 79,000 such illnesses from twelve multi-state outbreaks since 1990.

        Since the chance is there, according to the CDC, you should always follow these precautions when handling raw tomatoes:
        • Don’t buy bruised or damaged tomatoes.
        • Washall tomatoes thoroughly just before eating.
        • Refrigerate cut, peeled, or cooked tomatoes within 2 hours, or discard them.
        • Separate cut tomatoes from raw, unwashed produce items, raw meats, and raw seafood.
        Indeed, by following these tips, you are not only greatly decreasing your risk of contracting salmonella from raw tomatoes but also maximizing the flavor of your tomatoes—you should really think of these, then, as Raw Tomato Rules as opposed to simply guidelines.

      •   BE SURE AND LOOK AT THIS TODAY FIND THINGS THAT ARE HARD TO FIND...AND THEY CAN SHIP ALL AROUND THE WORLD.

      • Thought you might like to see this. 5 years with AOL I still call them Journals.  DAD
        http://journals.aol.co.uk/pharmolo/anniversary5blog/?page=2

        If you  view this Albums below  please use the slideshow  

      •  
      • READ THE REST OF DAD'S JOURNAL.

      •  
      • Thursday, August 21, 2008

        ENTRY # FIFTEEN HUNDRED & FOUR.

        Good Morning.

        Picture by Vicki.

         

        Picture by Dad.           

        , A cup of  good Tea or Coffee, will help you get started  this morning they are both ready and waiting on you. So now I am sitting here by myself waiting to see you come through that door. I could use a little cheering up myself this morning. Some times old Dad gets down and need a little help  Come on Smile.

         

        Time is so precious-do not waste it.                © 2008 by Ray F White.

        "The sun never sets on Dad's Tomato Garden Journal."     

        To all of  my friends all around the world -have a nice day.

        Together  We Can make some one Smile. Our smiles have made it around the world, I knew that we could do it, DAD.

        (Note:  This morning I had something  that I wanted to show, it was too long for this entry, so I just made a new Entry # Fifteen  HUNDRED  &  FOUR A. which is just down below this one. )

        Posted on 21 August 2008 by tomatocasual.com
        Tomatoes May Fight Salmonella!

        By Michelle Fabio

        A study recently reported in the Journal of the Science of Food and Agriculture has shown that along with konjac gum, sesame seed, yeast and pumpkin, tomatoes may actually offer protection against certain strains of Salmonella bacteria and E. Coli.

        The study out of Wageningen University and Research Centre in the Netherlands found that these foods act as “binders” for bacteria, so that bacteria attaches to them rather than to your cells, lowering chances of gastro-intestinal infections from such bacteria and/or lessening symptoms.

        Dr. Petra Becker, who led the study, said, “The importance of fibre, particularly from certain foodstuffs, in maintaining Read the rest of this entry »

        • Look Rock  In the west.

        •    The two cams in the Smokies, one in the eastern part and the other one in the  west.

        • Purchase  Knob   In the east.

        • WEATHER     This is AOL weather.

        • WEATHER . COM     This  link is very good also.

        • ( I  seem to use this every day, but I personally like and use it every day.)

        • We are working on a new outside cam that we hope to have ready soon. Watch for it.

        • Things are looking good, it won't be long now.  DAD.

        •   BE SURE AND LOOK AT THIS TODAY FIND THINGS THAT ARE HARD TO FIND...AND THEY CAN SHIP ALL AROUND THE WORLD.

        • This is my thought for this day. Thursday August 21st 2008.
           
          "Forgiveness is the fragrant of flowers spread over the heel that crushes it "

          This was sent to me by John M.

           

        •  Do you ever dream of Hiking in the Smokies . Well I do but it is just always a dream, at my age I just don't have the strenght to do it. But Laura and Lucy have done all that they  can do to make it a pleasure to do.    Click on that link  above and let them tell you, I don't know as much about it as they do.  Dad.
        • If you  view this Albums below  please use the slideshow  

        • ENTRY # FIFTEN HUNDRED & 4 A

          Good Morning.

          This below is a little something extra that I have this Thursday morning. It was too long to put in my regular entry so I decided to do it this way, I am still writing my reguar entry.    #  1504  Dad.

          Hope everyone enjoys this one.  It's worth reading.  And sharing. 
           
           
          Something worth repeating. - a fairly long read but worthwhile
           
          A young man learns what's most important in life from the guy next door.  It had been some time since Jack had seen the old man. College,  girls, career, and life itself got in the way. In fact, Jack moved clear  across the country in pursuit of his dreams.  There, in the rush of his  busy life, Jack had little time to think about the past and often no time  to spend with his wife and son.  He was working on his future, and nothing could stop him. Over the phone, his mother told him, "Mr. Belser died last night.  The funeral is Wednesday."  Memories flashed through his mind like an old  newsreel as he sat quietly remembering his childhood days.  "Jack, did you hear me?"  "Oh, sorry, Mom.  Yes, I heard you.  It's been so long since I thought  of him.  I'm sorry, but I honestly thought he died years ago," Jack  said.  "Well, he didn't forget you.  Every time I saw him he'd ask how you  were doing.  He'd reminisce about the many days you spent over 'his side of the fence' as he put it," Mom told him. "I loved that old house he lived in," Jack said. "You know, Jack, after your father died, Mr. Belser stepped in to make sure you had a man's influence in your life," she said. "He's the one who taught me carpentry," he said.  "I wouldn't be in  this business if it weren't for him.  He spent a lot of time teaching me  things he thought were important . . . Mom, I'll be there for the  funeral," Jack said.  As busy as he was, he kept his word.  Jack caught the next flight to his hometown.  Mr. Belser's funeral was small and uneventful. He had no  children of his own, and most of his relatives had passed away.  The night before he had to return home, Jack and his Mom stopped by to  see the old house next door one more time.  Standing in the doorway, Jack paused for a moment.  It was like  crossing over into another dimension, a leap through space and time. The house was exactly as he remembered.  Every step held memories. Every  picture, every piece of furniture . . . Jack stopped suddenly. "What's wrong, Jack?" his Mom asked. "The box is gone," he said.  "What box?" Mom asked.  "There was a small gold box that he kept locked on top of his desk. I must have asked him a thousand times what was inside.  All he'd ever tell me was "the thing I value most," Jack said.  It was gone.  Everything about the house was exactly how Jack remembered it, except for the box.  He figured someone from the Belser  family had taken it.  "Now I'll never know what was so valuable to him," Jack said. I better get some sleep.  I have an early flight home, Mom."  It had been about two weeks since Mr. Belser died.  Returning home  from work one day Jack discovered a note in his mailbox. "Signature required on a package.  No one at home.  Please stop by the main post office within the next three days," the note read.  Early the next day Jack retrieved the package. The small box was old  and looked like it had been mailed a hundred years ago.  The handwriting  was difficult to read, but the return address caught his attention.  "Mr.  Harold Belser" it read.  Jack took the box out to his car and ripped open the package.  There inside was the gold box and an envelope.  Jack's hands shook as he read the note inside. "Upon my death, please forward this box and its contents to Jack  Bennett.  It's the thing I valued most in my life."  A small key was  taped to the letter.  His heart racing, as tears filling his eyes, Jack  carefully unlocked the box.  There inside he found a beautiful gold pocket watch.  Running his fingers slowly over the finely etched casing, he unlatched the cover.  Inside he found these words engraved: "Jack, Thanks for your time! -Harold Belser." "The thing he valued most was .. . . my time" Jack held the watch for a few minutes, then called his office and  cleared his appointments for the next two days. "Why?" Janet, his assistant asked. "I need some time to spend with my son," he said. "Oh, by the way,  Janet, thanks for your time!"
           
          "Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take but by the  moments that take our breath away," Think about this. You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.
           
          1.  At least 2 people in this world love you so much they would die  for you.
          2. At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
          3. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't
          4. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.
          5.
          You mean the world to someone.
          6. If not for you, someone may not be living
          7. You are special and unique.
          8. When you think you have no chance of getting what you want,  you probably won't get it, but if you trust God to do what's best, and  wait on His time, sooner or later, you will get it or something better.
          9. When you make the biggest mistake ever, something good can still  come from it.
          10. When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look:  you most likely turned your back on the world.
          11. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
          12. Always remember the compliments you received.  Forget about the rude remarks.
          13. Always tell someone how you feel about them; you will feel much  better when they know and you'll both be happy.
          14. If you have a great friend, take the time to let them know that they are great.
           
          Send this letter to all the people you care about, if you do so, you will certainly brighten someone's day and might change their perspective on life . . . for the better.
           
          To everyone I sent this to"Thanks for your time"

          SPAY/NEUTER AND ADOPT CATS.  http://www.bestfriends.org
           
          I need someone's help. I have misplaced the name of the one who sent the above to me, If it was you would you please let me know because I need to give proper credit to you.  DAD


           

          Tuesday, August 19, 2008

          ENTRY # FIFTEEN HUNDRED & TWO.

          GOOD  MORNING.

          Picture By Vicki.
           
          Picture by Dad.           
          Why don't we start this day the same as we always, A cup of  good Tea or Coffee, they are both ready and waiting on you. So now I am sitting here by myself waiting to see you come through that door.

          Time is so precious-do not waste it.                © 2008 by Ray F White.
          "The sun never sets on Dad's Tomato Garden Journal."     
          To all of  my friends all around the world -have a nice day.
          Together  We Can Make Someone Smile
          !
           

          Jim will be back home some time this afternoon, I know that they have enjoyed their trip.
          http://tennesseegrandaddy.blogspot.com/


        • He has been sending me some beautiful pictures, I will be showing you some more  of them later.



        • I did not mention anything about my doctors visit on friday, some of you have asked. Everything went well, he could not find anything wrong with me, and he don't want me to come back  untill  four months from now. It must just be meaness that is  wrong  with me, and I don't think that he can cure that.  DAD.


        • We received a call from Jade yesterday afternoon. I am sure that you remember her. She is the sweet girl from Vietnam  who came to America as an exchange student. and spent the school year with Jim and Beverly.
          Well she is back in America. She is entering a college in the state of  Utah. We hope to keep in  touch with her by email and we will let you know how things go with her. Dad.


        •   BE SURE AND LOOK AT THIS TODAY FIND THINGS THAT ARE HARD TO FIND...AND THEY CAN SHIP ALL AROUND THE WORLD










        • Here is a list of some  the countries that have visited my Journal in the last few days.
          Singapore, Germany, Australia, Poland, Finland, Italy, Beijing China, Sri Lanka, Botswana Africa, Canada, New Zeland, PhilipineIslands,  Incheon Republic of Korea, Turkey, England , Manatitian Mexico and Scotland.
          Map IP Address
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           Thanks so much to all of you. If you would like to send me an email or comment in your own language I would appreciate it very much.    DAD
          Posted on 19 August 2008 by tomatocasual.com
          Yellow Shoulders on Tomatoes
          By Michelle Fabio
          Do your tomatoes have yellow or green shoulders?
          That is, when the tops simply refuse to ripen to a glorious red color and instead stay yellow or green?
          Bill Lamont, a professor and extension vegetable specialist with Penn State University’s Department of Horticulture, says that if your tomatoes have yellow shoulders, intense heat or light has probably prevented lycopene production, and there are several things you can do to help your tomatoes get red shoulders next time around.
          What can you do to avoid yellow shoulders? Lamont suggests the following:
          (1) Select varieties of tomatoes that are Read the rest of this entry »





        • Look Rock  In the west.

        •    The two cams in the Smokies, one in the eastern part and the other one in the  west.



        • Purchase  Knob   In the east.

        • WEATHER     This is AOL weather.

        • WEATHER . COM     This  link is very good also.










        • We are working on a new outside cam that we hope to have ready soon. Watch for it.

        • If you  view any of the five  Albums below  please use the slideshow











        • Do your best to  smile  first at all  you see today , it might help some struggling soul . I love all of you. DAD...








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